Mindset Is Everything! How To Improve Your Life.
Mindset is everything, and it will be the determining factor between living an ordinary life or achieving the sky’s the limit kinda success.
To reach the top of the mountain, you need to do the climbing first. Be ready for some uncomfortable work to change your mindset and start getting the results you want.
At times it all might feel too much. Take a deep breath and remind yourself you can do hard things.
It may seem this is not good news, but believe me, it is the best news ever! Stay with me on this, and you will understand why.
There is no easy way. I won’t sugarcoat it. For the change to happen, it will require commitment and relentless work on your part.
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Here you go.
A circumstance by itself is not good or bad. It is just a fact like Monica is single, for example.
The thoughts triggered by a circumstance will decide how you perceive your experience and feelings and be the driver of your actions.
Back to Monica, yep, that’s me. I am happy being single, and it has been one hell of a ride. I have come to terms with things I struggled with before, and I now embrace myself unconditionally.
Accept what can’t be changed, constantly improving and loving who I am.
And from loving myself, I’ve been taking massive action to make life even better. I have just scratched the surface but realize there is so much potential to what I can accomplish.
At no moment do I question my worthiness based on my relationship status.
On the other hand, I know women that are miserable living in the same circumstances.
Singlehood, to some, is a sentence. Thinking no one is interested in being with them, they end up feeling rejected and not good enough.
The problem is they keep looking for external approval to feel worthy and deserving of love.
The Answer To Your Quest Is Within Yourself.
Too many times to count, I’ve heard someone saying it must have something wrong with them.
“Guys don’t want girls LIKE ME.” As if they are unworthy or have some kind of deadly transmissible disease.
Implying being them is not a good thing and always putting themselves down.
And while in this self-destructive behavior, they become a trainwreck going all over the place. Suddenly, everything in their lives turns into a problem.
Things like their job, financial status, looks, weight, having a kid are all the culprit for not having a relationship.
The whole world is against them, and life sucks.
The mind goes into a downward spiral mode that is so damaging to their self-confidence and mental health.
How is that for overthinking? Crazy!
My head was spinning, listening to all the stories. It’s sad to see yourself in that way.
All the negative emotions constantly running in their minds are not doing them any favor—much the opposite.
Be Accountable For What Happens In Your Life.
When you put your worthiness in someone else’s hands, it is a recipe for disaster and unhappiness.
Some people give a lot of power to others’ opinions and judgments. Allowing things out of their control to be the driver of their lives, which deeply affect their self-esteem.
But you need recognize the mindset of deflecting blame as if you are not responsible for what is happening in your life is not serving you.
Problems can only be addressed when you hold yourself accountable.
It is vital to develop the right mindset to be able to deal with your issues, so then you can fix them.
Sharpening your problem-solving skills will be instrumental in your self-development journey and life overall.
Whining and complaining to the world won’t contribute much to a solution.
It may be a tough pill to swallow, but you must turn inwards to find the root of your struggles.
Where The "Mindset Is Everything" Saying Comes Into Play.
When you understand that your thoughts are creating your reality, you will be freaking amazed at how much life changes and, more importantly, how much YOU change.
Think about this for a moment, if changing the way you think would help you get what you want. Isn’t it the best news ever? I think so!
Mindset matters! If you want to be happy and successful, you must cultivate a positive, healthy mind.
Get rid of all the negative stuff that has been polluting your brain for years. You must be intentional here for this to work.
A negative emotion comes up, acknowledge it, and let go. Don’t hold on to it for too long. You are not a garbage can.
Same Circumstance But Different Results.
Imagine a scenario where you gained a few pounds and are not happy about the way you look.
If your thoughts are, “I am disgusted with myself, I look so big.” Guess what actions you will take?
Most probably will continue to eat crappy food because you are coming from a self-hatred place. So you will keep punishing yourself for the extra weight.
Now, if you change your thinking and say, “It is okay, I gained a few pounds, and because I love myself and my body, I want to be healthy.”
What happens in this case? You will come up with a new plan to improve your eating habits.
You take action to solve what you perceive as a problem that aligns with your thoughts.
If Self-doubt Tries To Sneaky In, Respond Taking Massive Action.
When you keep moving forward regardless of being scared, you are telling yourself you won’t play that game.
Raising your standards, you send a clear message to yourself that you won’t entertain anything that doesn’t serve you, including your brain trying to trick you into self-sabotage.
Now that you know better, you shouldn’t fall into that trap anymore.
This is exactly where your superpower lies, putting yourself in total control of your life.
You're The Boss! You Decide What And How Things Are Going To Be.
Isn’t it amazing? Boss ladies, you are in charge!
Guys, this stuff is powerful and works! It will help you build resilience and be less susceptible to fall back. From now on, the only fall you will have is forward.
Having a positive mindset will take you places you can just dream of. When you become the master of your thoughts, anything is possible.
For instance, many people could be living a delightful life if not for their mindset and how they choose to perceive their reality.
And yes, this is a choice you make. The same event may happen to two people, and each of them will have their interpretation and feelings that will dictate their actions producing different outcomes.
In summary, circumstances are facts like I am divorced, I make X amount of money per month, I weigh X lbs.
Not making enough money, feeling fat, hating your job are not facts, but a thought. I am a blogger, fact. Got the idea?
Be Smart About The Thoughts You Choose.
It is on you to decide the thoughts you will have related to a specific situation.
Choose INTENTIONALLY to see the good in everything, always remaining optimistic.
Seeking opportunities and having a positive feeling associated with a circumstance will affect your actions, which produce the results.
Let’s do the reverse engineering working backward on this method.
1. Think about the desired outcome for a situation you are facing.
2. What actions do you need to take to get the wanted results?
3. Choose the feeling and thoughts you must have to trigger those actions.
There you go. These three lines are the answer to how you can improve your life and get the results you want.
Mindset IS Everything!
Mindset is everything. When you decide to have positive thoughts and feel good about it, you will be in tune with what you want and, consequently, act accordingly.
AH-Mazing the difference self-awareness can make in your life. That is when the magic happens, and you make the impossible, possible.
The more in sync you are with your feelings, staying vigilant when negativity comes to mind, the more successful you will be.
When you have mastered your mindset, you will be able to achieve your goals, be healthier, happier, and reach a level of success that will knock your socks off.
Nothing can stop you, not even yourself. You will be showing up as the woman you want to be. Strong and resilient.
Failure won’t have much meaning to you. It will only mean you have to try it again in a different way. That is it, no hard feelings. Literally!
Success is one step away, no more letdowns. You are now better equipped to overcome challenges and create the life of your dreams.
It’s mind-blowing to know that you can transform your life by choosing the right thoughts and taking action.
Dream big and chase those results.
Why limit yourself?
You can do this!